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Hi SteveK, I was monogamous in a 20+ year relationship, and my wife fell for another person, as it turned out, of the same sex. We are still together and happily married and never wanted a one-night stand or to cheat on each other. Reading through your situation, and having been thrown into a...

thanxs

What does RA mean?

So a quick update: IG has been to therapy and is relinquishing couples privilege's - which is good RB and I are closer as friends and lovers, especially since RB asked if she could fully enjoy our sex from IQ, who is now comfortable with that. RB is yet to go to therapy. IG therapy has brought...

The group sex between IQ, RB and me is probably the only real time now that IQ feels passionate and turned on. It's a side of my wife I love. RB and I rarely engage in sex. Sorted Agree The calendar is not something we all have the luxury of running our own. With them as co-workers, and IQ...

True. I agree. It just seems RB is wanting a little more now that the NRE is wearing off. This is what my priority is. But RB sees me and IQ as the primaries, which is true, but doesn't see how she is also equal in a lot of the time we share. RB often puts us first, and presumably puts herself...

In positions of authority in the school system, so both would lose their jobs. We are all staying in our own homes (me and IQ, and RB at her house). We don't move in any of those circles.

So I caught up with Red Beauty. It is in September that her partner died 6 years ago, so this month brings up lots of emotions. We agreed to talk about that, realistic days/catch-ups for Island Queen and Red Beauty for alone time, and working through jealousy. Dealing with the death of her...

I totally agree, as sex drive is hit and miss with IQ anyway. No way I'm agreeing to saying no for her feelings. RB needs to manage her emotions. This process is me being nice so she can feel better and improve her self-worth/esteem; I see it a s friend turning to me for advice and a cuddle.

I don't know - I think it is because my wife IQ tells her how she isn't in the mood -0 but does it, and enjoys it but wishes she had a higher sex drive like RB? so it is inferred but not actively discussed? I don't actively discuss RB and IQ intimacy during sleep overs. i think the talk is...

Yep, I've explained this a few times. We all have our own lives and I don't have any 'conditions' around dating, overnights etc. We are courteous and understanding that various needs for support, intimacy and simply just time together, apart or as a 3 exists. 2 of us are not having an issue...

will do

Hi All, Thanxs for the advice. I am using RADAR, and have asked for an agenda. The 2 main topics to address is 1. her managing her jealousy and 2. developing our dual relationship MoiAndre (MA + Red Beauty RB) - which she thinks may cause drama with her (RB & IQ). We (IQ & MA) have been married...

Hello All, I'm in a closed triad, with a fairly heavy emphasis on a V-type relationship. My wife Island Queen has a gf, Red Beauty, and we all have relations together. Both of these lovely ladies are perimenopausal and their sex drives are often non-existent, but they have a strong emotional...

Let's hope so.