Recent content by Mommyinthecloset

Well its complicated to say the least.. I guess you could say were still trying to figure things out. it defiantly affects thing, and im hoping opening our relationship up and me seeing other people will help.. If/when I find someone im into... I think its going to take some time before its...

ok makes so much more sence now! I agree that the terminology can be problematic.. when I hear things like primary secondary etc, my brain auto assumes there can only be one primary, but it makes so much more sence now :) and of course everyone has to find their own way, just nice knowing how...

ok, don’t take anything I say here the wrong way, not criticizing, just trying to understand. You said secondary’s are like people you date, but aren’t super serious yet, what if it becomes super serious? do you consider them a second primary? I would have assumed if they move in its serious...

Hello everyone! I was sent here by a friend who was following my blog, my story in short mode: Im heather, married for 7 years now, and a while ago I came to the realization I was a lesbian, recently I accepted it myself and started a blog to help me deal with it as well as to share my story as...

im clearly very new to this but.. secondaries dont have responcibilities? (chores/bills/etc?)