Recent content by MonoGuyWithPolyGirl

Wow.. thank you!

Fair enough. Thank you

Thank you for everything you said. And you're not wrong about it being moot if she stays put. I have not been putting pressure on her, nor will I ever because that is not my decision to make. I have chosen to be patient with the situation and see how she decides, fully prepared to bow out should...

The thing is, she absolutely does check all the boxes, more than anyone I've met in my life... and nothing about our relationship is even remotely forced. It just flows. That's one of the reasons why it's been such a conundrum for me, when I recently realized that she was talking to so many...

In the end, I think it really comes down to me not knowing what my threshold for what my would be partners saturation point would be. I have zero experience with polyamory. So I really can't say, as I have no frame of reference. So I suppose ultimately my fear comes from lack of experience /...

Yeah, that's pretty much it. Having a couple of partners doesn't seem like much of a drawback from my perspective. But the more partners there are, time and energy are just potentially diluted to the point where there's just no point. That would be my worry. But as someone that's never been in a...

I appreciate it. Yes 😞 It's complicated for her. Kids, etc. Not really, because she's been largely transparent with me. Not always right up front, but when asked, she's answered without hesitation, and not always what I hoped to hear. Nope lol. "Explain away" means making excuses, and...

Hi! I'm new here. I want to remain private in case my friend is also here. So, I have always considered myself monogamous. I really enjoy putting all my energy into my partner, just kind of who I am, and I just don't feel like I have the capacity to do that for multiple people. That said, I've...