Recent content by MonoShocked

Well, maybe they are all like the guy I got involved with? Maybe they SEEM open about it but its more of a "I know about it but chose to look away"... I really think that is more of the culture here. I think a more racist statement is that there would be several Dutch here :p:D

Shayla, You've been quite the voice of reason. You seem like a very level headed person. I appreciate your input. Also, reading the boards, I noticed you posted a question about France and the French... for what's its worth, I live in France and this person I got involved with is French. The...

Wow... amazing insight! He does have some childhood issues and total lack of self esteem.. and he admits this. He also says he has used sex to boost his self esteem...His parents were married until his dad died but there was something missing in the parental factor for sure. You're right.. I...

I chuckled when I read some of your responses which is what I needed. I DO think he is trying to better himself with therapy and the breaking up of his current relationship is an attempt to live a more authentic life. I DO take some of the blame because he was clear with me on occasions that...

Hey everyone, I thought I would hit you all up since you could probably shed some light on what happened to me. About 9 months ago I met a guy who was currently with his girlfriend for the last 3 years and had a 3 year old daughter too. As some background, he had got married fairly early in...