Recent content by moonstone

i cant understand the post above and what you are trying to say? Youd rather avoid sex because.... of all the problems it brings about? that sort of makes sense. Maybe you have just become asexual as well. so you can be both poly and asexual. Very interesting.

Hi Alphafour. I like the last line. we can be monogamous or polyamourous but what is important is that there is no hiding behind anything. That is how i live. I want to set an example of yet another way a way of less taboo to express yourself in a freer manner. When i went to Italy i learned...

I think when you cant find the perfect person...you may be apt to having your cake and eating to. You found the perfect woman for you. I suppose if i could have it all in one man and he were monogamous and prefered me to be monagamous...Being that I am less dominant than most... I would...

"I vaguely regret having settled for mono relationships so many times and wonder how many other wonderful relationships I've missed out on because of that." SeventhCrow that is so true. Everytime some man is taken off the market its sad and I kind of mourn it. No one should belong to anyone...

Thank you Mark.. I speak my mind. I am very conscious of others despite the 2 cents they are not wanting to hear. I want to understand how others think. Why do I care? Its interesting to me. Danny. Yes im anti-fat.. I want to be fatter than I am... but anything beyond what is necessary...

yeap. Thing is, I had to sort of break up with both. They were drivng me crazy, getting all proprietary. Now I see the one that lives closer to me as friends, often (no sex) and the one that lives far I call him when I need a lover. No discussing any details with either one. That makes my...

oh and "I think it's harder for straight men to be a part of a poly relationship. Like you said, it's all about the ego. Also remember that this lifestyle isn't always for everyone. I think a lot of people think this is just a means of legal cheating, which of course it's not." Danny, Its...

Um, no I would like for them to have other women. Very much. They are happy with just me and one is unwilling to meet the other. Or, primary doesnt want to meet secondary and secondary wasnt so sure anyway either. All I ask from a man is for whomever they date, is to introduce them to me...

Follow up The two men that i wasnt to have a polyamourous relationship were consumed in ego. One was simply unable to bring himself to meet the other. I find this very sad. I understand being formally a monogamous person but Being monogamous i also remember having serious conflicts about WHY...

13 ways of looking at a blackbird "I'm just trying to figure out what your concern is. ARe you worried that somebody might see something that you don't want them to see? That they'll form a negative opinion of you based on what they see? That they'll see something that provides them with...

Site for sore eyes. "So why do you worry about how you look? What is it you fear will happen if people see you as you are?" No, that is exactly why I wanted to add that to my intro. I dont want to fear the things that I think about... be they positive or negative. People tend to hide what they...

I am just embarking on this myself. I have never been married and therfore I have been leased by the planet to spread love. I never wanted anything more than to be special and supreme in some mans life but then men i was attracted to were not the ones that could provide that sort of thing...

Im making it a point not to just start talking or barging in and making my presence known better this time. Ive never been married. I am someone who would have been a great mom and monogamous lover forever and ever etc.. but I was very misfortunate with men and sooo I have evolved to this...

thanks thank you for sharing that. you are courageous. im not sure what im experiencing but it is new and it is healthy because it is about dealing with honesty. what a great practice. i need to go introduce myself...