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Fairly recently my wife and I opened up our relationship. We have previously had physical encounters with others but over the years we have been married we I came to realize she had a strong inclination toward polyamory and I realized I have essentially been polyamorous all along. We have had...

This is exactly the type of info I was looking for! Thank you all so much for it. I will be sure to post as things evolve. Again thank you!

I guess in rereading my original post it did come across as seeking advice on her behalf which is not really what I am after. It's about us as a couple. The concern we really have is negatively impacting our relationship as it stands. She has no immediate plans on a relationship and while she...

I posted mainly because she is not really a big internet forum user and I guess what I was really after was input on a mono/poly relationship and navigating that. I have found lots of information and advice on poly/poly relationships or starting a NEW relationship with one person being poly but...

So quick summary, We have both had pure sex experiences with others (both together and seperate) and they have been good things. That being said, that aspect is kind of growing with us and evolving. The sex we have both had is fun but H has realized she needs to have an emotional component...

Well, I guess this is the official Hell-o! I'm sure this is pretty standard but here is a bit of background. My wife(40) and I(45) (let's call her H for now since she hasn't joined yet) have been married for almost 9 years, together for 15. I was married previously and have 2 boys (16 who is...