Recent content by Mr Maple

I thank you and everyone else that is giving me a digital ear, so to speak. Regarding the other person and the burden they could face, you are right. But I think what would happen is that I would work more to help support that person with their own baggage too, and not show any of mine. I guess...

I tried to express my feelings about it. She wants to remain friends with him because it was just a week since this happened. She was very apologetic about everything and how she never meant to make me feel this way or that. Part of me wants to get mad, but it gets to just a little simmer and...

I gave the wife the side eye for a bit. I was not sure how to take it. But I also told her that for me there is no casual sex. I only have sex with people I love. That said person might also start to have feelings. How would we deal with that? It was the doorway into the poly conversations that...

Because it was the first week into their "meeting," I said that it would not be wise to just go into things right away, that it needed to be a step-by-step thing, and that boundaries had to be set for now, mostly to make sure things didn't get complicated. I knew she wanted more. I could see it...

Nope. A friend of hers (I didn't know her well) commented when we were hanging out that she had not been with a man in 3 years. So my wife offered me up, while talking about my skills. She did this a few times with more than one female friend of hers.

I don't know what is happening to us, tbh. I just wanted her to be happy in the end. Our family dynamic is odd, to say the least, lots of personal complications. She was married, but the entitled ass divorced her in the middle of a move with a newborn baby, I am a child of divorce, and not a...

Its was easy to omit some things. Though most of that is still true, I did try to make it not sound as complicated as it really is.

This is not a happy story. My wife and I have been married for about 13 years, together about 17. We have 3 kids. For the past 10 years I have felt like I was not making her happy. There has been a lot of stress in our lives, mostly money. But there have been others, too. She had started to...

@fkarl She asked me that once, I asked her how many openings she would be able to use at the same time and what ones, then pointed out that anal and vaginal have been claimed to be lost of fun for some women. She cringed, butt is off limits. I think she just wanted to get my reaction, but I...

well thats the thing that is confusing me the most here, it was her idea. sure like 90% of men on the planet, there is the dream of having XYZ number of women fawning over you and having your dick worshiped like a god, and probably 85% know that is just a dream that will never happen like in the...

@Evie I very much want this imaginary woman to want to be a part of the family, someone who would invest just as much time and energy into it as we do and into each other. In my perfect imaginary world, she would be a best friend to my wife and I and be seen as an aunt to the kids we already...

@ref2018 I guess I should have explained that better. Me having sex with any woman = I love you and want to have you with me every step of the way, like a wife. I'm not sure how to explain not being able to pull out. But it's like, if I cum inside, it's saying something about how I want to...

@GalaGirl I was not trying to make it sound like I was some kind of sex stud or anything. I was trying to reply to each section of the question/comment. Yes, I am, but I'm fine. I think it's more that she fears being blamed for things, or that she might be attacked over it. I feel that she...

@Magdlyn My bluntness is more of stating something like you were reading it in a dictionary. This is that, it's what it is. I make my statement, then I follow it with something witty, sarcastic or drily humorous. I literally say what I mean then add an example in one of the additions. While I...

@GalaGirl I would love to let her solve all her issues herself, but because of her past, she is too scared to. At least, that is what I feel that is happening. She would find ways out of things, to avoid it, because she would self-destruct. "Reasons" make her not worth it or it's too...