It's nice to hear that people are finding connection that are poly on okc! I think it's a another world for men meeting womeon on okc that are poly. I am finding that out. I get a lot of women that message me and like the idea but then just fade away without any reason or message. My wife...
I agree with ladyslipper.
The both of us read this book together which really helped us better understand our partnership and ourself's (individually). Before reading this book we always had thoughts of being unnatural about our desire to open up our family to others.
Very well stated!
I feel the email was the best way with this person, but other people might be better face-to-face. Our friend sparked a new way in our life as a married couple and I thank him for that. We did a lot of talking this last week and learned a lot more about each other and...
Thanks everyone for your thoughts... Lots of good points made!
I am bi-curious (both my wife and I are), but if my friend is not into that, I am okay with it! We are only looking for a triad to form out of this deeper friendship. We will talk to him about everything we are feeling for him...
Thanks for your thoughts Laylah and Redpepper. I am the husband :) I have wanted to bring a couple and/or another person (MFM and FMF) into our family for many years. I thought of my good friend (over 20 yrs) a couple of weeks ago, but did not say anything to my wife. She started to think...