Recent content by mrpockets

I was gonna hold off responding until I read the whole thread, but then I saw this and had to say something. I know this feeling oh so well. NRE is tough to deal with as a partner in a poly relationship. There was many times where I would wait to be alone and break down into tears because I...

My god, I had to go over that whole relationship line up twice just to understand it. Way too many people, which can lead to way too much drama. All relationships will have drama, whether they be poly, mono, friendships or any other relationship we have in life. They just seem to have the US...

We all have fears when a new relationship starts. My SO and I met when we were 17 and 19, and she was on her way to college. I came from relationships heavy in sex (actually my ex before her was all about sex, so much to the point we cut it off because I found out she was with 3 other guys, and...

Our V just had this same break down the other day. My SOs OSO is a friend of mine that she was interested in, and he had voiced to me many times how pretty she was, so when she came to me to ask if she could get to know him better, I was okay with it. It wasn't the first time I had let her have...

I guess because I never really knew the definition, I never even thought of cuckold, but your relationship sounds similar to mine and my girl's. She currently has an OSO, whereas I am mono. I tell her all the time that I want her to be happy, and that's why I agreed to letting her see her OSO...

Yeah, still trying to figure out all the lingo and identifications. I do guess the best way to put it is he is her secondary, and a really good friend of mine. No, the guy that she was into agreed to try a relationship, yet slept with her once, then left to go pursue another girl. After...

hiPDe Thanks for the welcomes everyone. As for figuring out the poly before the wedding, one of our biggest discussions is whether we will maintain it afterwards. One of my groomsman is our first partner, and if he drops out, our new partner is my backup. He was our friend before the...

Honestly, 3 months is a very short time to know someone and start thinking about things like this at a stage that early in the relationship. One of my ex's and I dated for 3 months, finally broke it off cause I thought she was cheating on me, come to find out, not only was she cheating on me...

So, I am actually writing this now as my fiance is actually in the other room cuddling and talking with our third partner. A quick introduction, my name is Pockets (or that's what people call me), im a 24 year old male, engaged to my lovely 22 year old fiance. We have been engaged for a year and...