Thats where I messed up, I met him the same day as two of my newer close friends, I thought they knew him well.
They assumed he was on the same wavelength as me and I thought the same because of them.
It's great advice and something I will do in future for sure
I only checked after a girl came forward and told me everything, she showed me texts between them where he invited him over but I agree I have been letting him treat me this way and that's why he has been.
Before she told me he invited her round I felt very gas lit and worried I was losing the...
Thank you all for the advice.
He's not my daughters father. I definitely need to stand my ground when he returns from holiday, we both do deserve better.
I guess I had been thinking this but didn't want to admit it to myself.
He's better but that's not really enough.
Because we did have (I didn't know he wasn't being truthful) many many good months together, 9 months before I found out everything.
When things were good they were amazing and I was happier than I have ever been before.
I'm pretty loyal and have always been one to give people chance after...
So you think there is no saving it at all?
If it were possible how would I go about it when his new gf has made it very clear to me she doesn't want me around.
I have stopped reading facebook now, I guess I am just upset as I have given him so many chances and I do a couple of things and he...
Moving in with new girlfriend and not me - advice please?
Sorry this is quite a long post.
Almost a year ago I met an amazing man and started a long distance relationship.
From the outset he said he had problems with monogamy so we agreed on an open relationship where we didn't discuss details...