Recent content by MsDolly

You were very on point with the double load ugh's. It's like you have been through this before and know exactly how I feel! I have already asked her for space, but that didn't go over well because she is not a space giving kind of gal. When she gets upset, she wants to have long, drawn out...

Thanks for your reply. I was recently dumped, and it's affected both myself and my primary negatively. We are both new to poly and have never had to deal with a breakup before. My primary is hurt by the fact that I was hurt by the breakup. She feels like I was not up front with her about the...

When there is a breakup in a secondary relationship, how are things handled in the primary relationship? What do you do to make your partner feel better after they have been hurt by someone else? Also, on the flip side of that, how do you keep the breakup blues from affecting your primary...