Recent content by mspmel

Thank you everyone. Your words are very helpful. Yes, I agree. talking about it and realising how this fits for me and him is important. and I like the reward system! in some respects I can see that I have a bit of anxiety as I am rather shy, introverted. I have also had bad experiences with...

Yes. i guess we havent really talked about stuff like that. i get a sense that i shouldnt impoae too much. but in reality its a good thing to do. i guess i am unsure as to how a poly relationship works. i have always been monogomous. i guess its about finding my feet and sense of self in all of...

Hi, I am new to this forum as well as to polyamory so would welcome any comments/advice! My question is about how others deal with feelings after spending time with their poly partner. I have been in a relationship with a poly man who has another girlfriend and who also ocassionally goes on...