Recent content by Mwf71

Great insight nycindie, thank you!

Thank you, we actually have backed off into the friend zone over the last few weeks.

GG, thank you, lots of info to digest!

I apologize, I have not given an accurate description of the situation. My other and I have made no plans for her to move here, it is just talk at the moment. I came here to attempt to gain perspective on the best course to follow forward. So that I know how to make the happy dream become...

Yes, I do realize I am being selfish, a character trait I despise. One of the primary reasons for coming here. Was hoping for a little less judgement and a bit more understanding and assistance on how to proceed, if I even do proceed.

Sorry, I wasn't clear in my original post. She would move here. My comments about cohabitation stems from some research I conducted that indicated that many poly couples live together. As I said, or should have said, this is a new concept to me and I do not know the logistics of how this...

Leetah, thank you for your insight. Yes, we have been taking things slowly. We talk daily, but due to her messy divorce and me being married, we can not talk to anybody about this. So we are kind of adrift. There is no rush and talk frequently about not moving past "arms length." Thank you...

Technically my second post as my first was somehow deleted when I tried to send.. Hi, new to poly and your site. I still need to kick around and get more info, but wanted to ask for advice. I have been married to my wife for 15 yrs, been together nearly 18. In the past 4-5 months I met a...