Recent content by natalie

GroundedSpirit, thanks for the advice. :) I know... I'm pretty positive I'm a monoamorous person. I don't know if this the best life for me. But I really have connected with this guy, and that's why it's hard. If I didn't feel so strongly about him, I wouldn't be considering this. So that's...

Tonberry, it's funny you use the only-child example, because I am an only child and have not dealt with siblings, and my family is really small. lol. But yes, I know I am really insecure. I would be insecure in a normal relationship and this just adds on a LOT more than I ever ever ever...

That's exactly what I've said to him, but he always claims he's sure of everything in his life. I will probably ask about it again, but from what I can recall he said something like he won't "let" himself do it because he won't be as open with other girls, because he knows it would make me...

Thanks. To the ones that replied saying they're with a married guy, what was it like meeting his wife the first time? I know she knows his past girls, and from things I've gathered, they've all hung out with her BF. So I guess it's normal to them, just obviously not to me. Thanks for the input...

Okay, I've been lurking around, and I like the discussions on here. So I would like to try to get some insight or comments from you guys. A lot of posts I see are from married people, in established relationships, considering something/working through something. What if you're the new person...