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Thanks for all the advice. I think I'm going to try and spend a bit more time with her during work hours and try and assess if this is something she may be interested in and then invite her out to coffee one time outside of work. As you say if she's not interested it will probably be a firm no!!!

Thanks for all your feedback, and yeah I agree it's not the best of ideas and is the main thing holding me back, especially since we work in the same team. I guess I've got to decide if Jane is worth the risk, and if not then make my peace with it and move on.

Hi all, I've been with my current partner for 9 years, married for 5 and have recently opened up about being polyamorous after trying to ignore it in myself. The main catalyst for this is there is a women I work with, Jane, who I have strong feelings for and I think may be interested in me, but...