We grok, Times2.
We have had a hard time explaining this part to people at times. Most monogamists think of polyfidelity as polygamy, and I have no idea how the general poly community views it.
That article was very interesting. Thank you for sharing it, AnnabelMore.
One couple, one account
We are new, and have been told that having one account can be detrimental, but this is how we handle every group we belong to.
We choose to have one account for many reasons. Primarily because it is pointless to have multiple accounts and having to parse messages back...
We are taking Nycindie's advice on this one. We have discussed it for a while and want to have the relationship stabalized before we rock the boat too much with our current family.
Love > sex
I think you're confusing polyamory with polysexual. I want another woman to join our family, and I want to love her. Sex and love are not the same thing. I am not bisexual. If I love another woman, I'm not going to rule out sexual activities, but we make sure to put forward that that...
I don't want to derail the thread and make it about an issue that it wasn't but I did want to clarify, we aren't "unicorn hunters." Dominique is not bisexual. We aren't looking for group sex, nor are we opposed. It's just not something we even take into consideration in looking for our third...
As to the "They don't read my profile" thing, we haven't had that problem much, but we clearly state we are a polyfi couple, and all but two of the pictures we put up include both of us.
I don't know if anyone else has had this issue, but we ran into a problem where we found an interested...
My wife and I have been having a slightly different problem. We get bites, but just people curious about the lifestyle, or who say "You guys seem great, but I'm not interested in poly." We wish that OKC was a little more poly friendly.
We actually made a co-profile, just listed it under my...
Hello poly forums!
We have been talking about and passively looking for a second female for seven years, but only recently have we began to actively pursue the lifestyle and relationship style we have wanted.
We have been trying the internet dating thing for a while but it is hard enough to...