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    Being Poly & Staying Friends with Your Ex

    Most of my exes are not in my life and I don't think that poly is a factor in that. I need for when a relationship is over for it to be over. I find it difficult once there has been closeness like that with someone to go back to being friends and keeping all my many feelings to myself :)
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    Samhain

    sooo, we live in a spiritually "mixed" household, and as such don't really do a lot of spirituality related things together. It's usually just individual, and I might be a bit weird here, but I'm a solo practitioner and I keep my own actions very private.... But as a family we always spend the...
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    Naughty's Story

    so when I first "came out" to my husband (who is mono) about my feelings for women and about monogamy was understandably shaken. And for several months things around the house were very emotionally charged and often very tense. But in the last couple of months this seems to have abated, and...
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    Monthly Meet Up In Toronto

    Thank you for the update on the Poly social. How late do these generally go? It takes me some time to get into Toronto and wouldn't be able to make it for the start time, but would also hate to arrive and find that everyone has already left...
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    poly books and stories (also films) for children

    what a great thread! thank you for posting this. I will happily be looking into the above mentioned ones to read to my girls :) you mentioned stereotyped sexual roles. might you also be interested in stereotyped gender roles? if so, there are some themes in the paper bag princess by Robert...
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    The Hairpin: Ask A Dude

    I came across this on the Hairpin today. The second question, or block of bolded text, mentions polyamory. Just thought I would share... http://thehairpin.com/2011/09/polyamory-hair-pulling-and-responding-to-compliments#comments
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    Polyamory in television shows

    Oh my gosh, this show looks like its quite good. Thank you for posting this, I think I'll check it out :)
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    practicing poly but not ID'ing as poly?

    I don't identify. Why? Well I guess that I have heard so many definitions about what polyamory is and what it is not..... and I know that I fit in there somewhere, but I do not want to tell someone that I am polyamorous and have them forming an idea of how I am that might not be how I am at...
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    What did you do today that made you smile?

    me too :D but sadly the smile wore off this morning and was replaced with the dreaded roller drama :(
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    What did you do today that made you smile?

    played roller derby :D
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    super tired! we were out in the sun all day, but had lots of fun :D
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    Object of desire in a closed marriage?

    I don't think that I would want to be with a cheater, and so no I would not get involved with somebody in a closed marriage. I would just be friends only.
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    Reuniting considerations

    I agree with River. The idea of veto powers is really unsettling for me. A willingness to give them up would be an indication from them that they do not view you as disposable.
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    Book "Self Compassion" by Kristin Neff

    Thank you for posting about the book and the website! This looks interesting, I'm going to take some time to learn about it :)
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    Naughty's Story

    I'm feeling really sad today. It could just be the rain, but also it could be something that's been nagging at me for a while.... I don't understand how someone would date me happily when they think that I am going behind my husband's back, but if he knows about it, its weird and won't work. I...
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