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Thank you :-) Mignonne yes I guess thats what I'm asking, more the closed triangle triad than a V. My own new closed triad has gotten off to a pretty nice start so I am hopeful. :D Lol Nadya thank you for that link. It was a lovely thing to read!

Lol Bookbug I have realised that, hence why i specifically asked to hear the good things because I decided what I was reading was likely to be biased.

SlowPoly thank you! That is exactly the sort of thing I was hoping to hear. :D

Oreadne, thank you that is a very valid point :)

I suppose I should point out im one of the females. Both my partner (m) and our addition (f) are experienced with poly. He will be spending time with each of us (including sex) on an individual basis as well as together and me and her will possibly spend time alone together too (as friends and...

The other day I started a post on here about being introduced to poly and starting a triad (and about my panic and fear as ive only ever previously been mono) Now i've had a lil look through the forum but time and time again I'm coming upon stories of triads failing. Or the addition to the...

Kc43 writing does help me sort out my head. I find that when I write things down it lifts a weight off, even if it doesnt physically change things its a help mentally. My partner has already made me promise to tell him when I get into thst negative head space. He knows already the way my head...

Both know im new to it and i would never want to hurt either of them. If i cant cope with the poly side then i will try being mono myself and letting them continue. If i still cant cope then it would be best i stepped away from the situation rather than try to stifle what they need in life. I...

But im worried about what if i cant cope with it. I love my bf, i would never want to stifle who he is but i just dont know. I dont handle change well. I dont want to trap him in an unhappy mono relationship but what if i cant sufficiently handle the poly aspect. I dont want to be the one...

Thank you for your replies. Im just scared I think.

I know i don't have to have a partner but i am kinda attracted to her too :o and we have kinda discussed being a three, we don't know each other well yet mind, and i think i would find it a lot more difficult if he was just out there doing it on his own. I don't think i could cope with that :( ...

I have been in a relationship with my partner for 6 months. I have always been in monogamous relationships. He is poly (which i had conveniently forgotten until a conversation a week ago) he feels trapped just with me and has found a lovely lass that we both get on with. She is also poly so I'm...