Recent content by newandunsure

Thank you for the replies and the perspective. Much of this reaffirms things I have already thought about and gives a good point of view from the outside. Thank you Gala for the link and the list.

Greetings all, As the name of the post and the user name suggest, this is a new adventure for me. I am a 36 yr old male that has been in a monogamous relationship with a 31 yr old woman for the last 10 years. Or so I thought. About 7 years in, she slept with a friend. The affair lasted about...