Recent content by Newobsession

Thank you all so much.

So, given that, what are my options here? Understand you all don't have a lot of details, but what's next?

Sorry, I mean, is it no longer ethical polyamory and now cheating now that his wife knows, and is not OK with he and my wife's relationship and has asked him to stop communicating with her. What I am really asking is : Whether or not I have any business judging my wife's relationship with him...

Hi all, Started practicing poly the beginning of this year with my wife of 11 years. It has been a rollercoaster and I now have a girlfriend and my spouse has some OKcupid sparks that are kindling. I am excited about the prospect of this new man in her life, he clearly understands her and is...

I really needed to hear that, thank you.

Thank you all. There was something wrong in our marriage. There was never passion. Sure, hot sex happened a few times, but we never had regular tornado-like sex. We tried, and we made things work fine in the bedroom. This has changed that. We are now having that intimacy that I had pretty...

Hey all, I am pretty new to all of this: Three weeks ago my wife let me know she was sexting with an old flame. This took me by surprise, and I am rolling with it. Initially I asked for boundaries (I was really uncomfortable with her saying "I love you" to him, but I am getting used to it) I...

Thank you! Wow, I had no idea this much response would come my way. For the record, I do not feel neglected by my wife. I am away from the house 5 days a week from 7AM to 7PM working. Sure there is some resentment there that I am out providing and she is at home doing what she is doing (she is...

Hi, brand new to this poly thing. Having a rough transition from mono (though it certainly could be worse) Wife has a long distance boyfriend, they text all day, she gets all hot and bothered and at night I get laid. Until about two nights ago when we were getting intimate I just kept losing...

Hey poly people- Any other sites out there you all know that at good place for written erotica?

My monogamous marriage has been darn near perfect, I hear older couples with use the "more good years than bad" saying and I think how my spouse and I have bad days or weeks, but they have been few and far apart. The only thing that has ever been missing from my relationship with my spouse is...

Hi, Newob here, 39 year old male, married for 10 years to a woman I fell in love with at 24. I have had many a crush in that time period, have never acted on it, and have backed away whenever to opportunity to take things a step further than non-(overtly) sexual flirtation arose. She has, on...