Recent content by noisycthulhu

I don't have it in me to give up, but I certainly have it in me to bitch and moan about it. Thank you, though, for giving your example as a light at the end of the tunnel. I will try to be more positive.

I love me some Cthulhu Mythos. :D this is my screen name for EVERYthing ^_^

Thank you! I've figured out some things and for now, being the fly on the wall appeals to me. I'll watch and see what happens ^_^

Oh I've come to that conclusion thus far :) When you can't choose, pick both! I'm trying to put my feet in the water, as it were...

Well I have a habit of wanting to please people, and in relationships I go along with what direction the other person takes it, so I have promised myself not to compromise to please someone else and focus on what IM looking for - and that seems to be a partner of both sexes :P

Good communication is key. I also advise info like this http://en.allexperts.com/q/BDSM-2733/2011/6/tips-understanding.htm just to get ideas to slip more naturally into such things...

I forgot to mention biting in my post! Shame on me. Being a sub is very tricky because there's a lot of trust involved, plus it's difficult to get what you need when someone isn't initially inclined to be your Dom. But it's great to hear you're getting into it! ^_^ Good for you!

Wow this is a huge thread. I won't go through it all (I'm up late enough as is) but I will throw in my two cents, just from my experience... I'm young enough and inexperienced enough to believe that I have metaphorically shot myself in the foot when it comes to what I'm wired for, which I've...

Hellos, I'm a self identified queer individual who has female parts, thinks like a guy, and is attracted to both genders for sex and companionship. This is a very new part of myself I'm discovering, having had my first experience with poly this last January with a married couple. They're my...

Quantum physics! An athletic nerd, and I say that as a compliment ^_^ I'm new too, hopefully we'll stick around!

Um hello ^_^ I'm a 23 yr old female who found, after I divorced my scumbag husband of three years, strong attraction to females in the form of a poly-fling. A married couple introduced me into the physical side of things, and I've found that emotional appeals to me as well. I basically can't...