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He has agreed to slow down a bit and have more reasonable dates...which makes me feel a lot better. I'm still not sure how I feel...but in time I will. I'm not interested in dating. Although I don't know what the future will bring.. especially after this!

Truth being..she doesn't know about us..his family. We didn't discuss if he was going to tell her this weekend. I hope he would so things don't get confusing, but he still is not back so I can't ask him yet. That's the problem with this visit. Yes they are friends but he said if something were...

I answered your question on my other post.

Kc: thank you so much for that response..envy is a much better explanation for how I feel. I will work on accepting my feelings instead of judging myself on how I feel. Self care is a little hard when you have 3 kids (youngest 19 months) but I can try harder to focus on myself. His NRE is...

I don't know since he didn't come back last night and we still haven't talked.:(:confused:

1. I guess I feel like now that we are at an understanding of who he is..I don't have the right to tell him to be on hold for unknown amount of time. ( The child situation is custody which cannot be resolved for sure..maybe 3 years at the earliest). 2. Yes it is a symptom of LDR. There is no...

Okay..here it goes! I'm sorry I didn't go more into detail, I am waiting on my post in relationship help to go through. I thought this was just and intro. However now that you have asked! It sounds like you are ok with Open, but not with the idea of dating separately. Is that it? I don't...

They went camping and it's been over 24 hour. I'm sure he is having an amazing time. He should be back tonight but I told him if going good to not worry and stay out longer. There is no reception where he is so that...is great; I think. It's only been 3 weeks since I discovered my husband is...

Who knows what I feel right now...I think there should be a word for the spouse of a person who realizes they are poly. Although I may feel like our situation is different, the more I read and learn, I now know it's not. We have been married 7 years and about 4 years ago a situation came up and...