To clarify, we are not poly currently. Mostly just swinging. The people we message are just for hookups but are aware we read/share. Also, as a matter of fact i am comfortable with my stuff being shared. These are not other relationships we are texting, just friends/hookups.
It was our original agreement that we have always followed. Hes feeling a lack of privacy from it, but also recognizes he feels that even from when i sit next to him and happen to see the phone he is holding if i happen to look to the side - which we both understand isnt exactly rational.
We...
No, our convo turned to a discussion on communication the other day when a message was asked about and we came across an issue we were both having though in different ways. In the process, we each explained our feelings etc and one of the things is what do i need in terms of openness with...
I appreciate the reply, but i dont get the impression that you understood or i conveyed incorrectly.
I never said i thought reading messages was poly related. I am asking on this forum as my partner and i have been poly before and couldnt find a good forum for open relationships etc. In other...
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Nesting partner and i together 2.5 yrs, started off as poly but changed to more swinger style partly due to covid and some early on issues.
Both of us match on kinks, interests, but not drive. Our sex levels are different in that i am very attracted to him and would love much more...