Recent content by nostorinogt

This will be a completely separate search. This woman will have no contact with anyone other than us. This is also a mostly sexual thing with friendship only playing a small part.

We are going away from the triad idea. The threesome thing is a fantasy of mine that she is willing to do and was the one to bring it up. Part of our new found sexual freedom is playing out fantasies. I want to fulfill hers and she wants to fulfill mine. This is most every guys fantasy and I...

She want to do the threesome thing to. Its not a bad thing if both parties are into it. Don't be so quick to judge me because she was the one to bring up the threesome.

I have got past the whole triad thing. After having a long talk with my wife I now know that is not what she wants ,but I have got to take advantage of having a bisexual wife at least once.

I am open to love with someone else. It just wont be the same love that I have with my wife. There comes a time when to much time is taken away from your marriage and your family ,that is my stopping point in all of this. If I ever do feel neglected then It will be brought up and things will...

She is the new to me Amanda. This thing she has know about for years and has kept hidden from me is what make her new. I have learned so much from her in the last 2 months and it has been amazing. Do I wish she would have told me sooner well yes. She has open my eyes up to a whole new world...

concerns Its mike again. Yes I have some issues that will take time to straighten out. When we decided to do this I did some research and there were people that said to do a contract and have a specific set of rules. Well since I am the one stepping out of my comfort zone I decided I should be...

The other half Hi. I have been reading all of your insightful and helpful comments. I figured it was time to join the conversation. I am Mrs. Nostorinogt. Mike has given you some of the background and chain of events that have shaped the last month of our lives. I have been bisexual since I was...

I cant stomach the thought of letting her go out on her own without at least having the option. She has told me what she wants and I think she is going to have a hard time finding it. We have talked about this and she does not want me to be at home with the kids by myself while she is out...

We are really in the discussion phase of this. The best solution might be a completely open marriage were we don't have any physical contact with the others secondary partner. We are just exploring this as a viable option. We would not expect this other person to bear any responsibility when it...

The thing I see as the problem with this is I have seen it ruin 2 long term marriages. She has only been involved with one woman in her life and that was someone she was friends with before the sex began. That relationship only lasted 2 years and it was done. I was friends with the same woman...

I was not hurt when she came out as bisexual. I was only hurt when she said she needed to be with a woman also to make her happy. She has had a very screwed up past that has caused a big disconnect in her head. She does not connect sex with feelings. I don't know how far I trust that. She was...

I am more of a traditionalist when it comes to marriage. I don't care if your gay or straight but marriage in my eyes used to be between 2 people. I am the one opening up to this Idea. I would not let my wife step outside this marriage with out me being able to play along too. If she stepped out...

She want to have experience with women again and the only way I feel comfortable with this is for both of us to be able to have freedom to have an outside partner. You have to understand that I though I married a straight person. This was something that was just brought to my attention just a...

Yea, We are still in the research phase of this. We join a local poly group so we can meet like minded people. I Mike was happy going through life in a monogamous marriage then my wife being bisexual came up about a month and a half ago.