Thanks to everyone that responded. Definitely some good advice and I know I have to work on myself a little more especially since NM will eventually be with us 24/7.
In regard to her request to being in our room. She openly said it is about her insecurity to have "her" room, while "we" have...
My partner and I have been together under the same roof for 8 years. During that time we have had several good friends that have shared in our life via overnight or several weeks.
In January of this year, we met a wonderful woman (NM) and in August of this year we asked her to join us in a...