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Do you find that love and sex are two separate things (you can enjoy sex with someone you don't love) or that you do not like to have one without the other?

it sounds like your main worry is being left out. If he finds another lover, unless he brings her to live with you, then there will be less time for him to spend with you. There and again, if he got a new hobby that you weren't interested in then it would have the same result. You need to find...

you're being no more selfish than your girlfriend - it goes both ways. It's virtually impossible to live without making sacrifices, big or small and if your girlfriend isn't into the idea of polyamory in any shape or form then you are going to have to make a big sacrifice in one way or another...