Recent content by Nyork1234

The husband and wife came into his work, then after they left the husband sent him a text that his wife thought he was cute and would like to go on a date. Then kind of explained the dynamics of their poly relationship.

Finding a poly counselor would be really hard, we are in a heavy religious area. I did tell him that I think I would have been more open to the idea had it not been this timing. I just had a baby, our oldest just started school, and I'm breastfeeding so hormones and some baby blues are playing a...

I have given him my guidelines and he is okay with those. I am also asking him to read the Pitfalls document that I have. I did tell him there also may come a point where I may start an online relationship, I crave that type of attention, just to be flirted with, you know? But I'm not there...

I have never been more open and raw then I have been these last few days. If I could get the sex out of my head I think it would be way easier, looking at as a female friend. For now he has someone he is thinking about dating but he has not contacted her, she is poly and told her husband that...

I am coming from a truly fearful place right now, I am afraid if I don't let him try this, I will lose him. And that if I do he will find something better and leave anyway.

I am seeking help for myself, I asked for time to get myself in order and get back to where we were, but he things that doing both at the same time is best. Which for his happiness it is, I don't deny I am being selfish here, and that he needs this. But my fear is that while I am trying to work...

I also get upset at him being with another women taking away time from our family. He says we will always come first, but what if that starts to slip. He works 60+ hrs a week as it is so our time together is so limited. So even if he only dates one night a month, I will wonder why he doesn't...

He might be willing to join in on the conversation here. We have been together for 15 years, this is not a new issue, or even a we have kids now issue, it was before that. He says that he is grumpy and frustrated from the lack of sex and affection so he comes home and is super distant, he is...

This may be long and for that I am sorry. So I have had intimacy issues for a long time, I have very low sex drive, and I guess that spilled over into the simplest form of affection. I stopped kissing, hugging, hand holding. I wasn't really even aware how bad it was. Well Earlier in the week it...