Recent content by Oaks

I wanted to thank you all for your input about meeting this new meta in my life. Things went well, I think. He was a sweet guy and we had a lovely time together on Easter. I took some advice here and I was very direct and very clear about how dedicated and devoted I am to my primary and how that...

Cindi, I am quite amazed at your perceptions from what I wrote and I think you are entirely correct both at what my concerns seem in terms of what she has told her and in terms of I perceive. She has a history of "being a snake in the grass" (her words describing her past relationships)...

I suppose that is part of why I am interested in meeting him and you are right that it shows interest if he is willing to meet me. Thanks for that perspective. :)

This weekend I am heading out of town to meet a potential metamour. My love of 2 years has been out of state and has taken a new lover near where she is at. Its someone who she met a few weeks ago while home from work and has been visiting and spending time with over the weekends. There are some...

My lover includes me in those parts of her love life with which I am not directly involved. She does this when she speaks of her other loves, why she loves them, what they mean to her, what they do together. She allows me the opportunity to get to know them, both indirectly when she talks about...