Recent content by OhJoyItsJulie

Hey guys. I'm mainly looking for a place to vent among people who I'm hoping might have some insight. I'm beyond lost at this point. You can view my original post here for some back story: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?p=308202#post308202 My husband has been flip-flopping...

As updates go, I'm disappointed. We had a wedding to attended and spent 18 hours in a car together, so you'd think we could've hashed out some details or made progress. Nope. Right now, I'm still friends with Lover (as Galagirl calls him), but it's not going so well. Our relationship was kind...

Thanks again to all of you for the opinions/advice. We had a long talk last night and we currently stand with me still being friends with the other guy, just no sexual relations at this point in time. Hubs is going to try to work on his insecurities and see if he can get past them to the point...

Thanks everyone for the quick responses. I still feel like this is my fault. While we were doing this, my husband started expressing jealousy, but he told me it was just something he had to work through. He gave me a specific list of things I could do to help reassure him and help him get over...

Hey guys. My husband and I are new to an open relationship, but it has literally gone to hell. I'm looking for some advice on what to do or how to handle this all. I'm sorry it's long! My husband came out to me as bisexual, and he proposed the idea of an open relationship. At first, I was...