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    Has it really been 2 years ?

    Since we last checked in ? If any of you remember us, we were a plural family that has been around since 1978 and were made up of 4 wives and our husband. Long story short, our first two wives passed away, and my remaining co wife decided to leave us. So here we are my husband and I coming...
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    Curious about ending relationships..

    No, our family of 35 years has had member's pass on, and just recently had wife M tell us at a family meeting, that she wanted out, nothing that any of us did. It is very disappointing to wife J and myself, we wish her well and will remain friends with her. We doubt that we will accept her back...
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    Buying a house

    One of our acquaintances, who has 4 wives, bought a large house, by setting up their family business as a corporation. They are listed as equal shareholders, and the corp bought and owns the house. Hugs
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    Hi there, we're a Christian traditional poly family who are retired in Pa. We were up until...

    Hi there, we're a Christian traditional poly family who are retired in Pa. We were up until recently a triad (one of members chose to leave after 12 years) and are interested in friendship.
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    Colorado Fairy

    Welcome back Pyxiegrl, Hugs :)
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    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Hi Jane, Unfortunately with fundies who can't think for themselves, they wouldn't even believe God himself, if he appeared to them, so I just don't really have anything to do with them. Perhaps some day they'll wake up to the fact that they're missing God's joy in loving. > Jane wrote...
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    Facebook Status

    Mine says " It's Complicated" which covers my relationship status as far as Facebook is concerned. Hugs :p
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    BC Canada allows more than 2 parents on birth certificates!

    Yes we saw that too, here's the link to the LA Times article : http://www.latimes.com/local/la-me-brown-bills-parents-20131005,0,7226241.story
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    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Another Good Link When I outed myself to my brother, he regurgitated the teachings of man and condemned me. He's now had a change of heart and mind, and now defends my choices, and has sent me this link that got him studying God's word and not simply accepting what the church teaches. >...
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    Herpes

    > We've always practiced polyfidelity, when the ladies brought a potential wife into the family, there was no sex period, until proper testing was completed. Even then there was no unprotected sex until after the wife entered our family. We like you have been very, very lucky in STD department...
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    Societal norms in non-standard relationships: Why do they hurt?

    As we aged, we found ourselves caring less and less what blood family, neighbors, and society think. Sure some people got bent out of shape and refused to talk to us, but the way I figure they were never really our friends anyway. Most ppl were and are caring, besides the more often we come out...
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    BC Canada allows more than 2 parents on birth certificates!

    B.C. has the right idea, although their federal court did rule against religiously motivated plural marriages. Perhaps when alternative families are the norm the high court will revisit silly laws regarding plural unions. Hugs :)
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    Polyamory and Virgins

    Interesting post and viewpoints. I wonder when we're 90 if we'll have the same ideas? While we love sexual activity, the act becomes less important as we age, it's the love that we share for each other that defines our relationship. I suspect that when I get to the above age the wildest we'll...
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    Other sites like this one?

    We're on Polyamorous Percolations http://www.polyamoryonline.org/smf/ as well as this forum, on Libchrist's Delphi Forums to a lesser degree, 4thefamily.us, and Biblicalfamilies.org Hugs
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    In case you hadn't seen, Poly percs is back up and running.

    In case you hadn't seen, Poly percs is back up and running.
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