Recent content by OldSchoolG

Kevin, Thank you. I have consulted with a few people (this forum and previously two old, dear friends) about my 'awakening' or whatever it is called. And everyone seems to think that a divorce was inevitable, or the least bad of the bad options. in fact I already, a few weeks ago, dropped the...

Gala Girl, Thanks for your honest advice. It is in line with a lot of my thinking as well, although I do not wish for that possible end result - a divorce and also losing the closeness with my friend, who indeed as you say is somewhat of a serial cheater (although the physical cheating is new...

Hello all, I am new to this forum - brand new. I am also new to polyamory, in fact I am not really there (yet) but am in a confusing situation that the good members of this forum can perhaps help me with: I am a mid 40s straight man, married with children for 14 years. I love my wife very...