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An Update I'm back, a month later, with an update. We did all meet together in person. I was able to get clear communication from Cindy that whatever Betty and I do is fine with her, she's not placing any limitations. So that was a big relief because I needed to be sure there was no...

@vanquish, thank you for your thoughts. @everyone I'm really so glad I came here to ask my question last night. I was in a bit of a panic, and all of your thoughtful replies have helped me a lot. I'm happy to be happy with the way things are for now, and you've all helped me realize that. So...

You're so right about that. I was feeling like our plan to meet was a little forced, more due to all of us being available at the same time than anything else. So after posting here last night, I told Betty that I'm happy with the way things are between us right now. I want to let things take...

It's just an idea. It's floating out there. I haven't picked it up, so I certainly haven't dropped it. :) I'm really full of "I don't know" UNTIL I do know. I try not to decide ahead of time how I'll feel about something. I only know that right now, I'm a bit nervous. Thank you. I guess...

@GalaGirl, thank you for all the insight. You've given me a lot to think about.

@Marcus, I'm nervous because I'm not sure how I'll feel or react to seeing them together. I'm fine knowing they're together, but actually seeing it - I don't know. And I won't know until it happens. I also don't know how Cindy will react actually seeing me and Betty together. It could all be...

This is my first post here, so please go gently with me. I'm in a fairly new V-formation poly relationship. My lover and I are one side of the V. The other side is my lover and her girlfriend. (Their relationship is primary, and of just slightly longer duration.) For the sake of discussion...