Wow, thanks everyone. this is exactly the kind of discussion I was looking for.
You guys have given me a lot to think about. I dont think I had fully thought about the fact that if this relationship were to move forward and then break off, I wouldn't have my pal to run to for comfort. That...
sorry if there's another thread like this out there. I looked, but I didn't see one.
backstory: My best friend and his wife are poly. They are both currently dating other people, and have a very good setup regarding negotiation, boundaries, communication, etc. I've been spending a lot of time...