Recent content by openornot

We did it! You were all right, and I knew it. I swallowed my pride and fear and just came out with it all last night. He tried denying it at first, then I made it clear that I knew what was going on. His explanation is that they had a thing for years, and now she contacts him from time to...

Update We talked last night. I told him I was open to him bringing someone else into his life. He swore he was not having a sexual relationship with anyone, and that he did not want to open the relationship, because he was worried about himself being jealous of my other partners. I couldn't...

I saw a text message from her about making Valentine's Day plans. Our history with her predates the maturity and security to engage in any extracurricular activities, so I assume he thinks she would be a sore spot.

I am happily married. My husband and I have been together for 12 years. I've just confirmed that my husband has been seeing a woman on and off for 14 years. He denies their relationship. I am not concerned about him continuing to see her. She clearly gives him something he needs, and he clearly...