Recent content by OurDream

no one can tell you for sure what you are or aren't doing in terms of "settling". BUT-I can tell you that I simply didn't KNOW how to describe my love for another to my husband. When I finally did, I was SHAKING in terror. But he was happy to know the truth, while still trying to find out...

I know it's a little early-but I'm interested in finding out what other people's plans are for Valentine's Day in terms of their multiple partners. :)

I absolutely do. Having been party to relationships where that was not happening-I can attest that it takes both parties personally FEELING and committing to full responsibility-in order for a relationship to work in a healthy, functional manner. Like your quote! Harder question. I think...

Absolutely brilliant. I think it would be KICKASS if we could create a class like this. If we used it-to teach our own kids at home, inevitably they will start talking and other kids curiosities will be raised. ESPECIALLY at the highschool level-that would open a lot of doors for sharing. I...

www.xeromag.com has some KICK BUTT articles about dealing with insecurity and jealousy-actually walk you through steps to take for yourself that will help with those emotions. Check it out.

We're a happy V with kids. Look forward to meeting other people. Nothing major to share yet.. just enjoying knowing other people who can accept our non-conformity.

Thanks guys.

Can't say I'm NEW to polyamory-but not OLD either. Look forward to meeting people here. No problems, so no big questions (yet!).