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    "The Rules"

    What purpose does that rule serve?
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    Is thin the only sexy?

    I don't know if thin is the only sexy .... the question is kind of loaded in my opinion. I don't think anyone would argue that speaking strictly in terms of physical desirability it's true that a 114 lb lady, 36-24-36 will generally get more attention than the 200 lb lady that is siting beside...
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    Looking for experienced advice & perspective.

    Sounds like his new potential live in interest sees men as little more than bank machines ........... perhaps they're perfect for each other.
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    any eaten Canadians out there

    Fredericton Here
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    Redpepper's journey

    I'm no expert, I don't even play one on TV, but I did have a couple of thoughts. I don't think you have to fear becoming free from care. It's easy not to burn grey matter about things you don't care about. No question that it's difficult to not get carried away when you (not you specifically...
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    Sleeping Arrangements and Beds: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Is there room for a King Sized bed in your room? Perhaps a king size memory foam topper 2 or 3 inches can be put on a floor someplace and this would do for a bit. Essentially what I read here is that your bed is too small for the three of you to comfortably sleep ...... That would suggest...
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    Sleeping Arrangements and Beds: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    just a bit of an update Most of the ideas here we considered .... in the end a 3'' Memory foam seemed to work out best. it rolls up small enough to fit a rubbermaid container when not in use ...... it serves as a terrific play area and a comfortable place to sleep as well.
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    Redpepper's journey

    RP said "It amazes me how the affect of one small animal can change a person. I had a rat I loved just as much and several cats, dogs and other small animals that didn't effect my life as much. When my big brown tabby, Trevor goes I will be devistated. Yet not so much if my torteshell cat (now...
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    Redpepper's journey

    I just wanted to say good luck, and thank you. It's interesting what people get from wanting to learn about themselves. Also, because of online communities such as this, there are entirely new ways to share information and support. I've read your blog from start to finish, It's weird because I...
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    Interesting reaction

    I was going to ask something along the same lines .... Maybe it's the tone of your post ( or a tone I might be reading into it ) In any event I'm happy for you and Bear .... Hope that helps.
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    "Dear Mr. and Mrs. UH, I'm not sure how to say this, but..."

    I dunno, I'm a relatively new member here but lurked for quite a bit before that. Every second day there seems to be a post looking for that magic bullet about how to speak to your SO about opening up the relationship, or how do I deal with jealousy (mine or theirs) etc. I don't find "do a...
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    Feeling threatened...

    I think for me it is clear some of the things that you feel are triggering your response of feeling threatened. I don't know if I could comment on if you are being too sensitive or not but I was thinking it might be helpful if you could expand on what feeling threatened means. What...
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    Dubious on "douchebags"

    That's funny right there!
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    compromising.

    Thanks, I enjoyed it.
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    compromising.

    Im not much of a "techno weenie" ..... But the link you provided didn't load for me. I'd certainly be interested to read it.
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