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We had a working triad for the past year, but our third got cold feet when it came to us relocating and she left us. It was our first time with a third. We developed routines that worked for the three of us, and focused heavily on communication and growth. We are seeking a new third for our...

The Male. My searching for information brought me here.

That would actually be bigamy and is against the law. Now you're just arguing semantics and attempting to get a rise out of me. It doesn't have to make sense to you, not do I care for your attempts to find contradictions in my statements. If you're not here to help, just move on with your life...

That's a fair statement. But I'm not trying to date anyone here just gather information the two of us can use. I handle the searching, and weeding out of scams and con artists. She fine tunes our search by weeding out who I think has potential but am uncertain about.

But it is possible and yes sometimes the dynamic shifts towards one or the other but that's the point of communication and the individual dating days. To keep everyone on the same page. I personally have no issues being in love with more than one person.

Our plan was a three way hand fasting ceremony, it would essentially carry the same weight of marriage without being legally binding.

I'm a DM and she plays whatever lol. She's still kinda new.

Yeah the dynamic we set isn't always the three of us. We do individual things as well as throuple things so it's not so overwhelming. The one on ones coupled with the throuple on other days reduces stress and builds on an individual basis as well.

I'll keep that in mind. We're heavy on communication and honesty so if we can address issues as they arise we can avoid catastrophe.

See that I don't understand. How is there not much in it for a unicorn? They literally get to have their cake and eat it too. Twice the love and affection, and if they are bi they can sate both of their sexual interests. Maybe I'm listing it wrong. It's full throuple dynamic, with an equal...

That's painful. It breaks my heart to read your post. I hope things go smoothly in your future whichever direction things take.

So we just moved to the area (Northern Ohio) about 2 weeks ago and are very new to the lifestyle (about a year). We've checked dating apps and scoured the Internet for information on meet ups and events but have found nothing. Any advice on how to refine our search for a third would be...

We're a sweet poly couple, we've been together 16 years, married for 7, and recently lost our third. Don't want to get into details, but are willing to talk about it with someone we're close with or interested in. We've been in the lifestyle for about a year now. He's a pleasure dom, with...