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    Advice for maintaining boundaries with exes?

    Yeah, I suspect something is going on along these lines. He often struggles with feeling guilty about things he has no control over, or has no responsibility for (for instance, the guilt he felt over one of his ex-girlfriends' unexpected death ended up driving him to an emotional breakdown). As...
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    Advice for maintaining boundaries with exes?

    Sort of? They haven't done anything sexual in person since they broke up, but I know they talk about doing stuff again at some point in the future, & there's some amount of playing sexually online (enough for her to complain recently about him not talking to her enough about other things, like...
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    Advice for maintaining boundaries with exes?

    Yes, Alistair & I are involved; we had been together for four years prior to the break up. He broke up with me rather abruptly in September 2013, he started up with Sophie about a week after the break up, & then he broke up with her in February 2014. I was pretty upset at the time that this was...
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    Advice for maintaining boundaries with exes?

    Hey. New here, but I had a situation which I wanted to get more poly perspective on, as I don't know whether my reaction is unreasonable & could use some input. So, my boyfriend (let's call him Alistair) & I are in a poly-ish relationship. We're both bi, but I don't have other relationships...
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