Recent content by Pandora79

You are very right Kevin, Thank you for the resources. I will definitely peruse them. Much appreciated.

Thanks - I have had mixed feeling about that site. Some of the advice is much too simplistic and explained with way too much metaphor. Its like loooooong metaphor so you get the concept but then short on practical advice, other than, I really love it when my partner is with someone else so you...

OMG! I NEEDED THIS KATHY LABRIOLA IN MY LIFE!! Thank you for this - truly. :-)

Haha ok that helps clarify... All of those things are off the table and we both agree. He and I do not live together and and we have discussed that at least for now she can not go to his place, and he feels the same way about it. He does not talk about her and their relationship unless I ask...

Thank you..that does make sense. I think the issue is that now he has already begun this relationship with the other person so the go slow stuff is moot. I would never ask him to leave someone else, but I will be honest about how it makes me feel. We have agreed to set times to discuss these...

Let me clarify that broke my rules was a good thing - I had always walled myself off from people to keep myself from getting hurt and in this case I finally found someone I trusted enough to really let in in a way I had never allowed anyone else to. As far as his being Poly - he always felt...

I have been in polyamorous relationships for many years, though only recently came to use that terminology. About 3 years ago, I started a relationship with someone who broke all my rules. Challenged me, pushed me and we have grown together as one of the strongest relationships I have ever seen...