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    Partner is smothering me

    Please just stop. :( My girlfriend and I already resolved our issues and the advice other people gave really helped. She too was worried that she may have been being too clingy and acknowledged that I have a right to space when necessary and I assured her that me dating someone new wouldn't mean...
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    Partner is smothering me

    It was always a poly relationship. I've been openly poly for 5 years. We don't even have a primary relationship. We both have other partners who we both had before we even met eachother. I also can't afford therapy as I'm on disability and have been making due by taking free therapy and skills...
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    Partner is smothering me

    But we aren't in a primary relationship with each other. I said we're in a primary relationship with ourselves. We believe that each individual is their own primary partner but can have a number of secondary relationships that are different in structure (whether they be platonic or romantic...
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    Partner is smothering me

    This was very helpful and non judgemental! Thank you for the advice. We're going to have a talk tonight about boundaries and she's agreed that it's okay if I write down my words to express myself.
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    Partner is smothering me

    Hey, no need to be rude. This is really ableist you know? You don't know either of us so you shouldn't make prejudice remarks about either of us or our relationship. If autism, BPD, anxiety, insecurities and introverts raise red flags for you need to seriously check yourself. You have no right...
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    Partner is smothering me

    Hi! Just as some background, my live in partner and I practice non hierarchical polyamory. In the particular style we practice involves us each having a primary relationship with ourselves and secondary relationships with others. Now I'm an introvert so this type works really well for me and she...
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    Triad Breakup (Contains Trigger Warning)

    Sorry, I've been using gender neutral pronouns to describe the involved parties. My bad. It's a habit of mine. Almost everything above is describing B not A. But, yeah, A is having unprotected sex with B, something that would have to be addressed and discussed.
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    Triad Breakup (Contains Trigger Warning)

    I think there is a misunderstanding here. All the issues above are in regards to B not A. Sorry if my explanation was confusing. A is actually quite sweet but I think they have confidence issues themselves, and hasn't had the best of luck with dating in the past, and that is what is keeping them...
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    Triad Breakup (Contains Trigger Warning)

    Trigger Warning: Rape Hello, I'm in a situation in which I'm how to deal with. I am triad relationship a partner who I've been with for over a year (A) and another I've been with for 7 months (B). I also have a new partner (C) who I met at Pride this year, actually through B. My relationship...
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