Recent content by ParadigmCrime

ahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahaha is it a red flag? Naw in my mind its probably a green flag, especially if they are NOT treated. Treated people on meds and counciling tend to be more unbalanaced, more dramatic, and more crazy than untreated ones. I know if Im attracted to someone, and they...

if you live with them, why do you send them emails? face time is in all ways superior. Personally if I lived with someone and they sent me lots of emails, Id probably not read them. Did you ever ask them "did you get my email?" Usually people who email/txt over actual face time, and a...

heh posts like this make me confused.. but i guess its just my take on poly. Sure Im poly, but its probably years down the line before I even think I might love one of my flings. I tell people Im poly... i dunno I guess people jump into love with poly, as fast as mono people do!? Not me.. I...

heh, it sucks sitting here reading through all the break up stuff, and most of it is due to people who think they are poly, but really cant handle what that really means. When the fact is.. me.. who personally have always disliked the word poly.. because it sounds like some hippy dippy...

well yeah shes always had mental issues.... ahem,... I prolly wouldnt be attracted to her if she didnt have issues... What can I say, I love crazy people. Ive had my own issues, and almost everyone I know at one time in their life has been to jail or mental institutions. Some of them both (me...

just to clairfy.. the alcohol isnt the underlying problem. Because she has a shitty attitude about life even sober. Drinking just makes things worse.. and in general doesnt drink everyday. Actually Im probably more of an alcoholic than her. I drink everyday, but even she will agree, that I...

also just to make clear, jealousy, and other lovers, and sex with other people has NEVER been a problem in our relationship. Hell just last week I ended up in a threesome with a new friend, and the other person who lives with us. The new friend was soooo worried it would cause a problem.. I...

Brief history. 10 yrs ago I was a commited non-relationship person. They just never worked for me. At the same time, met an awesome woman through a friend (who had a sexual relationship with her). We started off as friends, and eventually 8-9 yrs ago sorta became a regular in eachothers...