Recent content by parcimonieux

Insightful and correct, as usual. Now that I have gotten past our meeting and calmed down a lot, the commitments we have with Corinna are settling in and I'm feeling better. I trust her, and I should not worry so much, but it's hard when I feel exposed. With intimacy comes vulnerability...

Very much so. Did you discuss your desire with gf#2? Did she agree to fidelity with you inside your shared circle of partners? There is simply no substitute for communication, and *lots* of it, no exceptions. You cannot control people, but you can set mutually agreeable boundaries which...

Redpepper, NYCindie, thank you again. Your insight was extraordinarily helpful. The event itself was somewhat underwhelming, but still enjoyable. We like him. He is nice. We do have things in common. We talked a lot about superficial things. We drank way too much. :oops::rolleyes: I detected...

Too long; didn't read :) Wow. You are absolutely right at every level. Thankfully no, we are not having him over just to try and impress him; it's just to get to know each other, and *hopefully* break down barriers in the process. I like to think that I don't harbor any unrealistic...

TL;DR My wife and I are in a deep and intense relationship with a polyamorous woman who is in a relationship with a monoamorous guy. He mostly approves of my wife but does not approve of me. The three of us agree that this is very undesirable, maybe unsustainable. We have never met him, and...