Recent content by paul8976

You know what? You are both absolutely right. I really do appreciate your responses, but you are right, better to just chalk it up to not ever understanding and let the past be the past. My emotions and my logical side of me seem to be in a constant battle with one another, and that is what...

If you don’t mind, could I ask a couple questions about open relationships? In the future I would like to be more aware of the do’s and don’t when navigating non-monogamous relationships. So what I don't understand is her relationship with her bf. If she has told me how bad and rare her sex...

Thank you all for your support. You have no idea how helpful you have been. Honestly, when her first reaction to my postcard was to tell me that 'it was ok', and 'immediately recycled', I should have figuratively walked away right there. Being told that someone else's feelings were more...

Thank you so much for all of the responses! I appreciate it immensely. I haven't had access to a computer for the last couple of days so reading these this morning is a nice surprise! The last I spoke to her I had sent her a msg telling her how hurt I was for completely ignoring me over and...

Hi everyone If you could bear with me, I am new to polyamorous relationships and I hope I can receive some advice from this community. I am very confused and fairly hurt right now from the relationship that has just, kinda...ended. I met this girl about 8 months ago while living abroad. We hit...