Recent content by PDXPoly389

Yes I am in the United States. Oregon to be specific. Which is probably one of the most poly-friendly states. I have thought about approaching a lawyer. I'm just concerned what that would cost. And this has happened all so quickly I haven't had time to fully process everything. I figured I'd...

It sounds like, for now, he has a pretty clear boundary for monogamy between you two. How important for your life fulfillment is having the freedom to experience a variety of partners? Would you say it is a need, or a strong or a weak preference? Do you foresee yourself as being at high risk for...

Yes. Sorry I meant ENM. I can be a little dyslexic with "N/M"s!

NeilS, Unfortunately, people in poly relationships are still capable of the same kinds of minimizing and hurtful deceitful practices that people in monogamous relationships are capable of. Just because someone is intentionally practicing poly/EMN and they are open about it and a part of their...

So I could use some knowledge and perspectives for the situation I find my nesting relationship trending towards. My nesting partner ("N") and I have been in a hierarchical EMN relationship since we started dating 2.5 years ago. We both entered into the relationship with hierarchical EMN as...