i think the first question is of an "is your computer turned on?" level, but have you expressed to her that you feel that the arrangement is one-sided?
next thing, i'd guess, is to ask if she feels your behaviour towards others seems different in any specific way than hers, if she feels you're...
i've only had one relationship, the one i'm in now. but i never saw any sense in the idea that when you have one, you should turn down others that may start to develop. i don't see it as an identity. i see the principle of monogamy as a silly tradition. it's those who adhere to it who are making...