Recent content by Perks

AutumnalTone & opalescent thank you for your comments. My husband works 14 hour days and one week a month is on call 24/7. He deals with people in his line of work and by the time he comes home he just wants time alone and to see me before he falls asleep. Maybe that makes him odd. When we...

Wow people post fast on here! Thank you everyone for your comments. I was trying to make my original post short and to the point but I guess I should explain things a bit better. Yes I moved to be with him. I gave up things so I could have him in my life full time. It has been hard for me to...

Castalia, Yep same boat. Only I also gave up traveling, friends and my job to be in this relationship. Some days I get kinda mad at myself for allowing this to happen. (Totally my fault!) My husband gets 100% of my time. I only see my BF and the few friends I have in this town when my husband...

Thank you for the reply. Still in love. Totally. I've given up a lot for this relationship (not just about this) and I don't think I could leave him even if he said no to poly. I'm in this till death. GalaGirl I agree with you on every point you've made. I've talked his ear off with...

Poly= I've been this way my whole life. I know myself. Mono= Husband is knee deep in it. I came into this marriage with these words.... "I'm GOING to have sex with other people. Are you SURE you want to do this?" (And yes I know it sounds like I swing but we had talked before about...

I've been looking for support since I don't know anyone else in my life who is poly. Here I am. I have been with my husband for five years. He has recently changed his mind about being OK with my poly lifestyle. I hope we can work it out. PS- I loved reading everyone's different stories...