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In less than a month my SO moves home, 6500 kms away. If we are lucky we will see each other 2-3 times a year for the next 18-24 months when he moves closer and we can be in the same city for 2 years. We have been in a monogamous for the most part (he was with one of his GF's back home when he...

Kevin - I love "Y"! It fits :) thanks!! Ego - my situation is new for me. I am happy right now, but I don't have to share him while he is on my coast. He goes west in May and then the two others will share him while we attempt to stay in touch as much as we can until 18 months when he moves...

Hey :) I didn't know either! But apparently it's three people in seperate relationships with one person. So my boyfriend has two other girl friends and none of the three girls currently have a relationship with each other. (I think that's it!)

Hey Ego! Welcome...I am new here as well and right now involved in a three armed vee. It's awesome to have people who can understand and not judge. Enjoy your time here - I certainly am! :) Everyone so far has been helpful, opinionated :P and awesome!

LOL yes brainstorming! I love that word! I love you for being so specific and making me re-think what I type! I DO mean brainstorming. Thinking of different scenarios not PLANNING all of our lives for the next decade! Thanks Hun! xxx

We talked a little bit about the future and I guess really just laying down ideas right now. But he did say that he was intrigued by my ideas and that I had come up with concepts of making it work that he hadn't even thought of. For the record I am not getting my hopes up! :P but it was...

I am the one with the dreams, not sure if it is telepathic or what it is....but he doesn't hear me. And I don't tell him all I know, some of which is not accurate but I get a lot more right then I get wrong. And I can't control it nor do I use it for nefarious purposes Kevin. (Haha!) I guess...

Thanks everyone... I probably haven't explained enough....it's all a lot to get off my chest and isn't easy to explain. Poly isn't easy for him either, the stigma from family, friends and work. The connection is a, well, believe it or not a telepathic one of sorts. I have dreams of conversations...

You are probably right.... :(

My plan is to walk softly. I won't pursue any contact that is not requested. He hasn't told them about me yet. I am going to have a conversation about all of the stuff in my head soon with him. I know one will accept me. The other one hates the whole poly lifestyle so I am not going to be hoping...

Thank you Kevin :) I am committed to making this work and winning the hearts of all involved, even if its just acceptance. Any relationship I get involved in closer to home will be aware of my SO on the west coast. I believe open Communication is the key to making anything work. I need to...

Setteep I knew within two weeks of dating him that he had someone of significance out west. He said they had an understanding about him coming here and that they had a complicated relationship. I am an empath and very connected to him, he's my first relationship since leaving my emotionally...

New to Poly...After five months with my new SO I have recently been told that I am the third female in a poly quad. The other two girls know about each other but do not know that he has fallen in love with yet another girl ;) I know about everything, being open and communicating with him without...