Thank you so much for everyone's replies, questions and different perspectives . I appreciate it SO SO much. Definitely lots to think about, feel, consider and talk about. Thank you!
My husband and I have been married for 5 years, and this is our 3rd year of being Poly. I've been in a long distance relationship with, let's call him Sam, for about 16 months. For most of that time Sam was frequently dating but had no other partners. About 5 months back Sam met someone, who...