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    How to communicate in a V? Lying?

    Hey Amac. Thanks for your advice. Since you are a hinge, may I ask... do you have any tips for how to be a good hinge? Anything you have learned from experience? Any attitude you think helps most? Thanks!
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    How to communicate in a V? Lying?

    Hey Marcus I agree that I don't have to get in the middle of anything, nor do I want to. I will be happier and more relieved with barely no A in my life. Will just work on me and S. Thanks, I am relatively new to all the possible configurations and things. Bu yes, I will stop worrying about...
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    How to communicate in a V? Lying?

    Hey GalaGirl I love that =) I agree that I have to think about the communication issues here. Yes, S should've mentioned a lot of things before. And it rises up some flags for me about what I think communication should be like within a couple. I agree with everything you said. It does stink...
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    How to communicate in a V? Lying?

    Hey anamikanon, thanks for your insights. I think I might have confused you because I didn't explain things clearly. What I meant by this V model, is that S said he wants me and A to be friends, that's the kind of V he was hoping for, and perhaps I used the wrong words (I'm kinda new to this)...
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    How to communicate in a V? Lying?

    Hey Kevin. I agree with you that is better to keep my distance from A. I think not hearing and not having to deal with her altogether will make my life easier. And hopefully my relationship with S better. And yes, safe sex!
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    Greetings from Brazil!

    Oi Bartira, tudo bom? Vc chegou no site certo. Here you will find a lot of information, we talk about plenty of subjects regarding polyamory. There's more than enough links too to useful websites. So feel free to explore here and post messages, you'll get good feedback. Just as a side note...
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    How to communicate in a V? Lying?

    Hello guys, Most of my life I've been mono, but I've done poly as well in one previous relationship, and I like it more and more. So 10 months ago I met this wonderful man (let's call him S) who has partner (let's call her A) in an open relationship. S and I fell in love. Hard. I've met A and...
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