Recent content by pinkdaisy

Thank you for your thoughtful insight. This is exactly what I am doing right now. I have a lot to think about. Thanks again.

83569998 LOL So I am not crazy thinking it is hypocritical. Thank you Kevin. His thought on this is this way if we are all on board we CAN all celebrate the holidays and no one is left out from things ( he is in a band, who is going when tends to cause fights). He really isn't offering me any...

I don't mind the questions at all. I don't know how familiar he is with the terms.. i have been doing my research to answer my own questions. He would not be ok if I had an additional partner. I have brought that up. And that is part of my frustrations. He said he couldn't handle it. And...

This is where I am struggling. I guess I would be the "secondary" partner, and deep down I don't know if I am ok with that. I feel betrayed... we talked about a life together( he and I ) and now as he said it's changed It has been back and forth with them for years, even before we met. Now...

Thanks for the reply. No we aren't on equal footing. We have only met once, and that was by accident. The heart of the problem is neither of us originally planned on this situation. This is his solution to keeping us both in his life. I think we are both exploring it because we both love him...

Hello everyone, I am so glad I found this site to help navigate this situation that is new to me. I have been with my BF for almost 2 years. He is my soulmate, the love of my life and my best friend. I cannot imagine my life without him. When we started our relationship he was separated and...